tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7358502910299214655.post2956072602059712295..comments2013-08-14T04:48:21.469-04:00Comments on 2 Cent Tab: He's just my buddy!!!2CentTabhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08753012345524269690noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7358502910299214655.post-83870364901028192832011-03-13T23:22:26.809-04:002011-03-13T23:22:26.809-04:00I feel you on that Hadassah. It seems like women f...I feel you on that Hadassah. It seems like women from all walks of life want a guy who has the ability to take charge of situations--to take control without being controlling, if that makes sense.<br /><br />That was a good point about striking that balance. I'm married so some of the mystery is gone, but there are still ways to keep things fresh and mix that with chivalry and friendship, while keeping that "edge" that drew her to me in the first place.<br /><br />*And to the Facebook commenters, we'll have a Facebook fansite up soon to reply to those.<br /><br />Thanks everyone for posting, we like good dialog.Samsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15917375873912996139noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7358502910299214655.post-41032405452359008512011-03-13T22:36:14.820-04:002011-03-13T22:36:14.820-04:00This happens to women too, but for the sake of thi...This happens to women too, but for the sake of this blog and this post I have to say I agree with Joshua. As a woman, I LOVE to know I have a man that can take charge and is very in control. That means that you make it known from jump what you want. That also gives me an opportunity to make an informed decision about you and decide if I'm willing to follow your lead in the relationship.<br /><br />Mystery and aggression? Within reason, of course. Too aggressive may scare some women and too mysterious... that will only take you so far if you're looking to really connect with someone. I guess the real trick is to find balance with mystery, aggression, chivalry and friendship. I've been in situations with men where the physical attraction was about 40%, but the combination of everything else plus the fact that I knew his intentions made the difference.Hadassahnoreply@blogger.com